On the busy streets of Thimphu, Wangmo steers her taxi through the city’s traffic with quiet focus. For most passengers, she is simply another driver navigating the day’s work.
But behind the wheel is a story of resilience, one shaped by hardship, responsibility, and a mother’s determination to secure a better future for her children.
Fifteen years ago, after separating from her husband, Wangmo found herself raising their five sons largely on her own. Providing for them meant doing whatever work she could find. She ran small businesses and took on different jobs, carrying both the responsibilities of earning and caring for her family.
“Parenthood comes with constant challenges. When we focus on work, our children need attention; when we focus on the children, our work often takes a back seat.”
That balancing act became the rhythm of her life.
Then, two years ago, Wangmo made a choice few women make in Bhutan. She became a taxi driver. In a profession still dominated by men, she saw not intimidation, but an opportunity – a way to secure her family’s future.
“Even if the work is seen as a man’s job, I give it my best and work just as hard.”
It is a simple line, but it reveals the quiet reality of her days.
Before Wangmo even starts the engine, much of her work is already done.
“Many men have their wives to take care of the household. But for me, I have to finish everything at home before stepping out.”
Despite the long hours and demanding routine, Wangmo remains determined. Her story is not told in sorrow. It is told in strength.
The years have tested her. They have demanded resilience, patience, and sacrifice. But somewhere along that long and challenging road, she discovered something powerful: her independence.
“To anyone struggling, do not lose heart and never believe that you cannot do it. If someone else has done it, so can you. We may not be able to everything, but each of us has a strength that can help us become independent.”
Today, her youngest child is in Class 10, a milestone that reminds her how far she has come.
“I want people to believe that whatever we set our minds to, we can achieve. Everything begins with a mindset.”
That may be the heart of Wangmo’s journey.
Wangmo’s story is not simply about breaking stereotypes or enduring hardships. It reflects the perseverance of a mother who refused to let hardship define her family’s future. Her journey mirrors the strength of countless Bhutanese women whose strength often goes unseen, whose sacrifices are rarely celebrated, but whose resilience continues to carry families, communities and the country forward.
Samten Dolkar
Edited by Sonam Wangdi
